How Big Is Yours?

On hook up apps, we may embellish a little. At the beach, we may subtly adjust it to look better. Why is it so hard (pun intended) to talk honestly and openly about penis size?

A lot of avoidance on this issue likely comes down to the fact that our narrative about what constitutes a good size penis can largely be summed up in just 3 words – bigger is better. This baseline expectation is so entrenched in our collective thinking and culture, that it’s pushed out any other possible ideals.

It explains the rise in popularity of wonder-jock underwear, which much like it’s female cousin counterpart – the push up bra, enhances your natural shape to make it seem larger. It explains the anxiousness many men feel in gym change rooms. And ultimately, it explains why this topic seems to be so unapproachable for the majority of guys.

Since the rise of the metrosexual in the early naughties, men’s appearance has come under much closer scrutiny than at any other time before. Issues such as the appearance of ageing and body weight ideals are now being applied to men, in the same way that women’s bodies have been under the microscope for what seems like forever. It’s only natural then that attention would sooner or later turn to penis size.

It’s just that the conversation hasn’t really taken off, which is such a shame. There’s potential to have a mature, real and affirming discussion about penis size, that would be so beneficial for so many guys. These unrealistic expectations that we place on ourselves, and that seemed to be reinforced by society, aren’t productive.

READ – Why I’ll Never Be Instagay Hot (& Why I’m Totally OK With It)


Whatever size your penis is, is the size your penis will remain. There’s really nothing that can be done about. And yes, while penis enlargement surgery is an option – it’s a scary one (as a quick Google Images search will confirm). Which really only leaves one choice – acceptance.

So when it comes to talking about penis size, perhaps we should use acceptance as a starting point for the conversation? We should accept ourselves, and our bodies, just as they are. And we should extend that acceptance to others.

We might then be able (and open) to seeing other possibilities (size, colour, shape) and deem those different attributes to be positive as well. The ‘size is king’ approach is narrow and limiting if it’s the only approach we take. While I do get visually stimulated by a large penis, it’s not the only physical ideal that turns me on.

And the ultimate thing that turns me on about a penis? Well, that would be the person that’s attached to it. Whether you’re looking for a one-time hook up or a lifelong partner, penis size is but one of many factors that come into play.

When it comes to living your life happily, comfortably and naturally, perhaps we can all benefit from being more honest, compassionate and ultimately accepting of all penis sizes?


102 thoughts on “How Big Is Yours?

  1. Pingback: dapoxetine priligy kob

  2. Pingback: hydroxychloroquine in canada

  3. Pingback: hydroxychloroquine tab

  4. Pingback: hydroxychloroquine coronavirus

  5. Pingback: can hydroxychloroquine prevent coronavirus

  6. Pingback: buy generic ivermectil

  7. Pingback: priligy sale usa

  8. Pingback: can you get high off of ivermectin

  9. Pingback: buy stromectol online uk

  10. Pingback: t stromectol 6 mg

  11. Pingback: stromectol cold sores

  12. Pingback: cost of ivermectin pill

  13. Pingback: ivermectin for rosacea

  14. Pingback: buy ivermectin online no prescription

  15. Pingback: plaquenil price 200 mg

  16. Pingback: ivermectin stock price

  17. Pingback: dosage for ivermectin

  18. Pingback: is ivermectin for horses safe for humans

  19. Pingback: use of ivermectin in humans

  20. Pingback: ivermectin pills

  21. Pingback: sildenafil 50mg best price

  22. Pingback: canada rx viagra

  23. Pingback: worldwide pharmacies online

  24. Pingback: generic cialis no prescription canada

  25. Pingback: hydroxychloroquine in canada for sale

  26. Pingback: stromectol 12mg for sale online

  27. Pingback: tadalafil 5mg canada generic

  28. Pingback: can i buy viagra over the counter in india

  29. Pingback: molnupiravir and ivermectin

  30. Pingback: Anonymous

  31. Pingback: Anonymous

  32. Pingback: Anonymous

  33. Pingback: ivermectin uk

  34. Pingback: ivermectin

  35. Pingback: stromectol price

  36. Pingback: is ignition casino owned by bovada

  37. Pingback: ivermectin buy

  38. Pingback: ivermectin treatment for covid

  39. Pingback: prednisone brand

  40. Pingback: get cialis

  41. Pingback: tadalafil canada for sale

  42. Pingback: ivermectin 3mg tablets price

  43. Pingback: order viagra overnight delivery

  44. Pingback: ivermectin 3mg tablet

  45. Pingback: cialis prescription australia

  46. Pingback: viagra wirkung

  47. Pingback: what is ivermectin made from

  48. Pingback: cialis bula

  49. Pingback: cialis cheap cialis

  50. Pingback: rasa research tadalafil reviews

  51. Pingback: marley generics cialis

  52. Pingback: how to get cheap sildenafil online

  53. Pingback: cheapest generic cialis online pharmacy

  54. Pingback: ivermectin over counter uk

  55. Pingback: cheap cialis india

  56. Pingback: what is tadalafil

  57. Pingback: generic for cialis tadalafil

  58. Pingback: buy prednisone 5 mg

  59. Pingback: side effects of prednisone 20mg tablets

  60. Pingback: covid antiviral drugs

  61. Pingback: cialis online pharmacy

  62. Pingback: tadalafil generic cost

  63. Pingback: ivermectin human use

  64. Pingback: side effects of prednisone in humans

  65. Pingback: buying viagra

  66. Pingback: generic

  67. Pingback: $1000 free casino no deposit

  68. Pingback: cheap tadalafil

  69. Pingback: ivermectin where to find

  70. Pingback: stromectol 12mg

  71. Pingback: free money bonus casino

  72. Pingback: generic cialis

  73. Pingback: viagra pills online purchase

  74. Pingback: cialis 20mg online

  75. Pingback: stromectol tablets

  76. Pingback: stromectol tablets

  77. Pingback: ivermectin 0.08 oral solution

  78. Pingback: ivermectin dr pierre kory

  79. Pingback: ivermectin 1%

  80. Pingback: lasix medication over the counter

  81. Pingback: order furosemide without prescription

  82. Pingback: ivermectin 1 cream 45gm

  83. Pingback: ivermectin without a doctor prescription

  84. Pingback: ivermectin 50ml

  85. Pingback: how much is ivermectin

  86. Pingback: order ivermectin

  87. Pingback: play luckyland slots

  88. Pingback: tractor supply ivermectin pills

  89. Pingback: can you get ivermectin over the counter

  90. Pingback: iver mectin

  91. Pingback: stromectol ivermectinst

  92. Pingback: price of ivermectin liquid

  93. Pingback: generic for ivermectin

  94. Pingback: where to buy ivermectine us

  95. Pingback: maxim peptide tadalafil

  96. Pingback: ivermectin for humans cvs

  97. Pingback: buy stromectol pills

  98. Pingback: bahis siteleri

  99. Pingback: ivermectin buy nz

  100. Pingback: 2millennium

  101. Pingback: ivermectin 1%cream

  102. Pingback: A片

Comments are closed.