Defining Gay Male Sex Roles


In this guest post, Peter Di Sciascio explores both the history and evolution of how gay sex roles – top, bottom and versatile – came to be.

‘Gay’ has its beginnings as a culture for homosexual men in the USA in the early sixties. The Stonewall riots in 1969 heralded gay culture’s first public outing. Gay encompasses not just homosexual attraction and sex, but the full spectrum of social life as well. For the first time homosexual men could be looked at and observed in non-sexual terms.

Since then gay culture has witnessed decriminalisation and new freedoms in many parts of the world. Gay men can now develop new ways of identifying and relating to each other. A unique culture and community is emerging, to some extent free of the influence of the straight world. This grand project to establish our own culture is still very much a work in progress. However, no one is steering the ship, as is common with emerging cultures.

The characteristics of gay sex roles came out of decades of systematic oppression by the heterosexual world. In some respects gay sex is warped by those experiences. In recent times new freedoms have allowed gay sex to emerge as an increasingly unique sex, more likely to represent its participants’ desires than not. This transformation has accelerated in this century, the change being so fast that for many it has gone unnoticed.


In the beginning

To try and understand these changes I will present observations, consider human history, biology and evolution, and add a dose of logical thinking and common sense. I will apply these to current day manifestations of gay male sex, in particular, sex roles.

I am writing this from an observation point of Melbourne, Australia. I describe a theory; specific research has not been done. In reading this article, one should be reminded of biological variation:

The evolutionary process for all living things produces inherited errors and alterations. These alterations may not be compatible with life (a cause of miscarriages for example); they may prevent some desirable but not essential function or phenotypic characteristic, or be harmless but give no advantage. Often enough, though, advantage is gained, reproduction of the advantaged individual is favoured and over time the genetic ‘accident’ can become the norm. This forms one of the principles of evolution, that of natural selection.

At any point in time we can see it in the variations evident in humans. Core characteristics that are essential or highly desirable may be relatively stable, other characteristics may present as a spectrum of variation from one extreme to the other, from Black to White, with Grey in-between.

Observe the population, not the individual

To make an observation about a spectrum of presentations, or a subset of that spectrum, I apply the principle that ‘The observation applies to the population not the individual’. Instead of thinking of someone who doesn’t fit the observation, think instead about whether the observation is largely true for a population. Thus the observational method allows for current biological variations and the unique human ability to apply free will to alter or override instinctual traits.

A primary focus of this article is to understand the presentation of and influence of the strong human sexual forces of Dominance and Submission on gay male sexual practices.

A method for reproduction has been instilled into all living things and is essentially instinctual; it can’t be altered. Humans however have the capacity to apply free will, overriding instinct. Human reproduction allows for the presence of Instinctual and non-instinctual components, indeed we can have sex without reproduction in mind at all.


Once upon a time

Human sex has its origins in the beginnings of humankind. Perhaps we can imagine such early humans, with no language and limited intelligence but highly sought after for National Geographic documentaries. Instinct told the man that the male sperm had to get into the woman’s vagina. The male instinct is to spread his seed wide, minimising inbreeding, the woman’s to control fertility and produce offspring.

To encourage a joining of males and females to bring on reproduction, a few basic elements were put in place. Firstly sex is made pleasurable for both parties and the male is made active. The best result is where one party is active and instigates sex. Man produces endless numbers of sperm and is the active partner, this being achieved by a good measure of sex drive. Women have limits on how many offspring they can produce. Additionally, through the mothering instinct the woman takes into account such things as her health, environmental conditions and safety in determining whether it is wise to get pregnant. In theory, the man has an ‘accelerator’ on the amount of sex he desires, and the woman has a ‘brake’. The success of the balance between the accelerator and the brake is evident in the growth of the human population.

At this point it is worth noting that if you bring two men together, instinctually they have two ‘accelerators’. This would largely account for the observation that gay men have higher levels of sexual activity than heterosexual men.

In this model, male sex drive and his ability to have sex often, are greater than those of women. A sort of scattergun approach is in place with excess male sperm saturating the reproductive system compared to the available female ova. This ensures that female opportunities for reproduction are fully consumed and reproduction is maximised.

This begs the question, what happens to the unused sperm and absent sex events? With unused sex drive present we can imagine the tension and potential for danger to both women and men. Early man, with limited intelligence and no language would not have devised masturbation as a solution. I believe that an instinctual solution needed to be in place.

The nipple solution

The power of the male nipple: some readers will wonder what I mean, some of you will know very well what I mean. I refer to it as the potential in some men (apparently random) for the nipples to be ‘wired for pleasure’. Stimulating the nipple during sex can produce enormous sexual pleasure for the man, this can increase over time. Alas some men’s nipples don’t seem to be wired at all, there being no obvious reason for the randomness.

There is the potential for sexual tension to build up if there are not enough sex events with women available. This could result in fighting, violence and rape in what were pretty basic human conditions. While the penis is designed to be partly a sex organ, it is already wired for pleasure, the anus is not ostensibly designed for sex. I have noticed that while some gay men gain great pleasure from the sexual use of their anus, some do not. I can count myself as amongst the latter group. I get no sexual pleasure from my arse, while most gay men seem to.

I theorise that wayback in time, natural selection (evolution) allowed a proportion of men’s arses to be wired for pleasure. Not dissimilar to the nipple, except this time not so random and with an obvious purpose. When necessary, community sexual tension could be released and excess sexual activity ‘mopped up’ by one man fucking another man’s arse. It may not be reproductive activity but it feels great for both parties (assuming that the receptive participant’s arse is wired for pleasure) and is an alternative when women are unavailable for sex. For this to work, not all arses can be wired for pleasure (they couldn’t desire to be anally receptive, or nothing would get started). The penis is fundamentally wired for pleasure so in those men with an absence of anal pleasure (not wired for pleasure), the act of insertion of the penis into the arse of the other is incentivised.

I don’t believe that sexuality is a determinant in the eroticisation of the male arse. From a biological and evolutionary standpoint, all men should have the potential I described above. We hear about heterosexual men discovering their arse these days. I have had numerous encounters with men who wanted anal sex but were not attracted to other men. They thought they were bisexual, I think they are heterosexual with an arse wired for pleasure that they have just discovered. At the end of the day they want sex with women, that’s where their desires are oriented, the vagina being their objectified hole.

The feelings and sensations of Dominance and submission are strong erotic drivers in humans. They probably developed because they augment the active and passive roles of men and women during sex. Such roles bringing forth and encouraging the necessary physical coupling needed for reproduction. It is hard to change such a clear instinctual desire as that. An instinctual thought or feeling, however, lends itself to much interpretation. Thus it is with Dominance and submission. They are strong instinctual forces; forever present in us, but forces that ‘modern man’ has ‘fiddled with’ extensively.


What about Gay Men?

The stage has now been set for a discussion of how this applies to male on male sex in modern times. It is instructive to keep in mind that it is only quite recently that gay men have been free enough to develop a culture, including a sexual culture. The sexual culture includes aspects that are intrinsic and instinctual, as well as learned aspects. Wanting to put a cock into a hole and fuck is fairly instinctual. Which hole, the different styles of fucking, accuracy and skill, are largely learned. Both nature and nurture influence modern sexual activities. Unlike other living things we have free will, we can decide to ignore nature and instinct, but I believe that our underlying instinctual desires stay with nature even if we don’t act them out. Man’s development and intelligence does mean that we are more able to use our free will and make sexual choices other than instinctual. But the instinctual is always there until evolution and natural selection wash it out (not in our lifetimes).

I will concentrate on the characteristics of gay men’s sexual practices that are largely determined by nature and use them to illuminate the emerging gay sexual culture and understand the current teething problems.

Top, Bottom…….words of confusion

I was unable to find information about the origins of the terms Top and Bottom. Like so much of our history we were not permitted to record it, even if we were collectivised enough to see the need to record it. We weren’t allowed to gather, or form groups where a commonality of experiences and knowledge may have created some history. I suspect it would have been in the late 60s or early 70s, when the concept of Gay first appeared, that newly emancipated gay men decided on the words Top and Bottom as a quick way of communicating whose dick went into whose hole; very handy in a park at night.

Gay sex then was very much piecemeal and clandestine. There would have been few opportunities to form relationships and develop a more holistic sex life as part of a relationship. Cocksucking, for example, may have been the extent of a gay man’s experience. Sex in a house, in a bed, with a light on, was unusual. Think about why gay men like sex at beats, in unusual places, anonymous and in the dark. So much of their current sexual behaviour, the learned parts, is linked to our history. Meanwhile the instinctual parts, that nature has given us, often the foundations of our desired sexual expression, rather than being learned and created, are actually now being revealed. In modern times and with modern freedoms we are seeing for the first time what was always there.

Like all humans, gay men’s sexual desires are greatly influenced by the traits of dominance and submission. Remove sexual interaction with women, and the need to procreate from the picture, and we see the unmodulated influence of these two strong forces. Using terminology from the 60s, Tops are dominant and Bottoms are submissive. If you think about the desired sexual practices of Tops and Bottoms, they fit the binary picture of dominance and submission respectively.

In gay men these traits would be amplified by the essentially male level of sex drive and the amount of sex had where these characteristics are reinforced by the equally driven man with the complimentary role. The best way to see male behaviour in its purest form is to observe it when two men are interacting and the behaviour is doubled.

Back in the 60s this his binary concept of Top and Bottom was confirmed by observing the heterosexual model. Thus, in our naivety, we made a huge mistake.

Reminder: Observe the population, not the individual

You may be wondering if some gay men are naturally dominant and some naturally submissive why are all heterosexual men dominant with respect to women? While I have not set out to examine heterosexual male behaviours, the answer to this question would help illuminate gay male behaviour. I suspect that some heterosexual men do indeed carry innate submissive desires. They would have benefitted from them as Early Man when they were the receptive partner in a man on man sex encounter. Yet they then had to get up and hunt down women in an active and dominant way.

I do not believe that the presence of significant submissive sexual traits amongst gay men (along with dominance this is a binary characteristic), would exist only within the homosexual population (a unary characteristic). So much is possible with genetics but this seems unlikely. I surmise that the desire for sexual submission is present in some heterosexual men as well. However it is not amplified by the high levels of opportunity and regular experience of the learned components as we see in homosexual men. While it might enter the sex lives of some couples, the woman’s desires, the couple’s combined level of sex drive, and the negative influence of culture and taboo along with the presence of masturbation would dampen its practice. In theory the heterosexual male is satisfied by the prevalent modes of interaction with women and would not seek alternate roles. While I believe that an individual’s desire to be sexually dominant or submissive is determined by nature, I speak for men when I say that these roles are not essential for sex. The mechanics of sex can often proceed without them, but they play a big part in opportunity, desire, passion and enjoyment.


The mistake revealed

Getting back to our huge mistake; what we did was create categories for Tops and Bottoms but no one else. Versatile men missed out. Versatile men naturally have a mixture of both dominance and submission as erotic drivers. This allows them to express themselves sexually with the ways normally associated with both Bottoms and Tops. Indeed at any point they may appear to be a Top or Bottom by omission or commission and so were not appropriately recognised.

Essentially Versatile men had to identify with one of two categories already established, straight jacketing them into roles that were not totally natural for them. The mistake occurred because at the time there was so little knowledge about gay sex. We were not allowed to study it, record it, or spread the word. The heterosexual model we used as a comparator was not entirely helpful; there is no versatility in heterosexual sex. For versatility in sex you need same-same, both parties require the same bits. We looked at the heterosexual model and missed that one. Oops!

I can remember the constant dissatisfaction with the fixed roles, rules and agenda applied to sex. The now emblematic expression go with the flow was often heard from those who were disaffected. That expression is anathema to Tops and Bottoms and its presence can still be used as a marker of a Versatile man’s profile in an online meeting app. Of course the dissatisfaction seen at the time was from the Versatile men, stuck in the binary sex world we had created.

Rarely is something completely black and white in nature. As long as it is compatible with life there will usually be black and white, and a grey scale in-between. The expression of the characteristic (black-grey-white) will be 100% (black or white) at the extremes, with a graded mixture of the two in-between (grey). Tops have the characteristic of 100% dominance influencing their sexual activities. Bottoms have a 100% submission driver. The long forgotten Versatile men have dominance and submission mixed to varying degrees to produce a group with a spectrum of sexual and erotic drivers and behaviours.

There were no significant numbers of gay men identifying as Versatile until about the mid 90s. Their numbers have since exploded such that they are by far the largest group. Those left in the Top and Bottom boxes are genuinely from the extremes and may exhibit sex with the maximum and purest influence of either dominance or submission, never changing to the other.

A not-exactly-scientific experiment

When I have a Top or Bottom or Versatile guy visiting, it’s not uncommon to be asked if there are any interesting Tops or whatever in my locality. I’m a Top, I almost exclusively interact sexually with Bottoms, so I might know the local Bottoms. Generally though, Tops don’t talk to each other, and relations with Versatiles are currently a bit strained, so I don’t really know these other groups. I do a lot of surfing and cruising on apps like Scruff. As I check out a profile, I put a copy it into a favourites folder labelled with one of Bottom, Bottom Vers, Versatile, Top Vers or Top (that’s if the profile identified the guy’s desired role or position, as most do). My thinking was that I could just hand my iPad to my visitor and open the relevant Scruff favourites folder for them.

A favourites folder on Scruff has a limit of 250 profiles. Reach that number and you have to create another folder. Late in 2017 I noticed something interesting about the order that the folders were filling. I then asked quite a few of my friends which folder do they think filled first. Only one got it right. The rest said Bottom or Bottom Vers. The answer is Versatile (what I often refer to as Fully Vers). This unintended research is not highly scientific, but numbers are big enough that it is certainly indicative of a trend.

As I write: Bottom – folder 4
Bttm Vers – folder 3
Versatile – folder 8
Top Vers – folder 3
Top – folder 4

Now many have immediately wondered about all the Bottoms who are contaminating the Bttm Vers group, yeah, yeah, yeah, heard it all before! The stats are hardly significant enough to support such speculation.

It’s the significance of 8 folders of versatile guys that should grab you, and the combined versatile group being 14 folders. That’s the story being told.

According to these data the commonly held view that everyone has become a Bottom is a furphy. We are not seeing the wood for the trees, at least according to how guys identify on Scruff. Scruff is by far the most popular app in Melbourne; I think the numbers are a good indication of what is happening.

If we go back to the graded scale between dominance and submission, then the picture probably fits the reality. The Versatile numbers should be the most numerous. Nature wants 100% dominance and 100% submission points to complete the scale, that’s typical for nature. In the case of this sexual driver, to get the 100% extremes there can be no versatility within them. If you add any versatility then you don’t have expression of the 100% extreme. There’s a tipping point where the gradually decreasing amount of the opposing characteristic has to disappear. At the extremes either dominance or submission exist at full strength, dramatically influencing the desired sex. Desired sex on either side of the tipping point is so different that satisfying sex across the tipping point can be hard to achieve. This is the territory of Tops and Bottoms. Originally the words Top and Bottom were only applied to identify the insertive or receptive partner in anal sex, for many perhaps showing their limits of gay sex experience. Now they describe a holistic sexual practice driven by one of dominance or submission and devoid of desired versatility.

Dominance ≠ to top ≠ a Top
Submission ≠ to bottom ≠ a Bottom

Generally speaking, Tops want to fuck, dominate, be in charge, control, teach, lead, compete with other Tops, focus on their cock and the Bottom’s arse, plan and lead all sex, lead the role play and mind sex and generally apply their dominant role to all sexual activities. Control is very important. Tops don’t like surprises (surprises are uncontrolled) and they don’t have many fantasies (it’s hard to fantasise in a head that is such a controlled environment). The expression of these traits is desired and are important for arousal. Some can be so important that their absence can prevent arousal. Interestingly the Top’s arse is seldom used. He has no real desire there and he derives little or no sexual pleasure from it. Does that sound familiar?

The Bottom wants to submit. He loves to be the receptacle for pleasure and hand over all control, be fucked by multiple Tops and have all focus on his arse, which is highly wired for pleasure. In the heat of the moment even the most sensible and politically correct Bottom can tell the Top he wants to be treated like a whore and will ask to be raped. Their submissive drivers leave them with little control, the Top desires and takes all control, and hopefully he uses it wisely in these circumstances. The Bottom is highly susceptible to role-play and mind sex, and naturally desires the passive or submissive role in all sexual activities. Once he trusts the Top his submission can be complete. Bottoms love surprises and produce a constant stream of fantasies from a mind that has been freed of responsibilities and the cares of the world. A friend referred to them as ‘fantasy factories’.

The following is from a 50yo gay man, with many years as high class escort where he was almost completely Top or Versatile for clients. He says his nature is truly a Bottom. He describes the feelings of a Bottom and how a Bottom subtly teaches a Top.

I feel as a bottom, I have a duty to help a top become the best man he can be, with me, and for and with other men. His experience with me, should make him feel worthy, dominant, in control, masculine, powerful, and like a King. Like my King for the time we spend together (in my case ownership is shared), and like the bottom I am, I guide him through the process of finding his masculine self with me, by his side, (n.b., I am never in front), guided discovery techniques used here by me, together, so I can be satisfied, as a bottom, and indeed potentially as his sub if we go there…., and of course, for him to enjoy me, and himself. For me to have a Top roar in ecstasy as he expresses and reveals his power and dominance over me is exquisite, exciting, and liberating to say the least.

In short, bottoms play a role in the teaching, it does take some skill though…. And each man, is as you know, different, and as a bottom, I need to be aware at all times that there is a fine line between encouragement, and demonstrating practically, verbally and through other means my desire to be with the man. If I were to be demonstrative and emasculate the top…..that would be most unsatisfying for all…

So the Bottom doesn’t lose control after all.

Of course there may be variations in the presentation of Tops and Bottoms, largely due to environmental and cultural influences and the application of free will (nurture at work). Then there are the negative influences of decades of criminalisation and oppression (a sort of ‘nurture’ at work again). We should not forget or underestimate the damage that was done to generations of homosexual men and is still occurring in so many parts of the world.

I believe that what I have described are the fundamental sexual drivers for Tops and Bottoms. It is very defined and proscriptive, even the desire to define and proscribe comes naturally with a Top’s sexual makeup. These gay men essentially have no desire to venture out of their patch. This is nature at work, not nurture.

The gay men in the now very large Versatile group are influenced by both dominance and submission to varying degrees. In the middle would be the fully Versatile men with equal measures of the two drivers. The result is that Versatile men have desires across the full range of activities. They like to be both the inserter and receiver with anal sex for example. Within a sex session they may change sides several times, referred to as flipping. Dominance and submission influence their desires and how they play them out, but the influences are not as obvious as with Tops and Bottoms. The extremes of such desires are usually not there, there is no 100% of either driver, always a mix of influences. Versatile men inherently don’t like structure and fixed roles in sex, if these were present you could not have versatility. ‘Go with the flow’ is the order of the day.

Top and Bottom characteristics perfectly compliment each other. Versatility doesn’t exist for them and it is hard for them to compromise if having sex with a Versatile man. The very nature of versatility means the Versatile man is much more able to compromise and connect with a Top or Bottom. But it’s by no means a perfect match. One can imagine how much compromise had to happen in the early days before Versatiles were recognised.


Reminder: Observe the population, not the individual. These lists are by no means exhaustive.

Key characteristics of Versatile sex:

There is the desire to engage in both bottoming and topping.
It is essentially democratic; all participants have equal standing and power.
Participants desire that everyone experiences the sex equally.
Participants are solo operators, they are independent. There is no driver for collaboration.
No one is in charge.
Sex is not planned, it flows intuitively.
Versatility is ideal for threesomes and group sex.
There are no fixed roles.
All necessary body parts are wired for pleasure.
There is no role play nor mind sex.
No one really has the teacher role.
Versatiles can enjoy the full breadth of male on male sexual activities and experiences.
There are not foci on innovation and excellence, or pushing boundaries.
Sex is fun, there can be laughter.
Kink isn’t emphasised, most kink operates with fixed roles.

Key characteristics of Top/Bottom sex:

Roles are fixed, Tops always dominate, Bottoms always submit.
Sex is codified and has rules and standards.
The Top’s orgasm is primary, the Bottom’s is secondary.
In sex the Bottom’s cock is irrelevant as is the Top’s arse.
Sex is not democratic, there is a power difference, Tops are on top.
Sex is highly collaborative, Top and Bottom work together to achieve the very best sex.
Sex is serious, but highly satisfying.
Role-play is very effective. There is a strong psychological element to sex. There can be two layers of sex happening, that of the physical and the mind.
Sex is planned and delivered by the Top.
Tops teach Bottoms overtly. I suspect that Bottoms teach Tops covertly.
Tops discipline Bottoms (either verbally or physically), ensuring they comply with accepted behaviour.
Tops set standards.
There is an emphasis on innovation, excellence and pushing boundaries, it is common for Tops and Bottoms to specialise in a particular activity and pursue excellence in that activity.
There is no flipping. There is no desire to do the opposite activity.
The Bottom expects the Top to deliver the Bottom’s fantasies.
Top’s manage consent and safety.
There is often an interest in Kink. Most kink is suited to a dominant/submissive environment.
Threesomes and group sex are difficult; one on one is most effective.
Achieving total control and total submission in sex is prized.

Start taking away items from either list and the sex falls apart.

When reading these lists keep in mind my earlier comment, they apply to the population not the individual. There will be variations seen; however I believe these are representative of a fairly pure presentation. I know from experience that some aspects just do not cross over between Versatile and Top/Bottom sex. Some things are so characteristic of the groups that they can almost be infallible markers. As mentioned earlier, sex between members of both groups inevitably involves compromise. My experience is that Versatile men carry the lion’s share of the compromise, and Tops and Bottoms are the more dissatisfied with the sex.

Two types of sex?

You will notice that I am now making reference to Top/Bottom sex and Versatile sex. I do this deliberately as I believe we now have two very different forms of sex happening. Unfortunately they do not mix well. Traditionally, Tops have held the power in gay sex and gay culture. We now see that power shifting to Versatile men. I believe this is appropriate and Versatile sex should be the face of Gay sex. Versatile men have the numbers, they should be the biggest influence on the development of our nascent culture.

This power shift has led to some tension between Tops/Bottoms and Versatile men. Tops need to relinquish power, Versatile men need to use that power wisely. Older Versatile men were at one stage in either the Top or Bottom category, they have an understanding of Top/Bottom sex and the differences. Newer generations of Versatile men have often experienced no other sex than Versatile sex. They have little or no understanding of Top/Bottom sex and sadly my experience is they have little patience for it. I often interact with Versatile men who just can’t understand or accept why I don’t want to use my arse in sex.

Everyone’s a Bottom

I believe that recreational drugs do increase the desire and ability to use the arse sexually, and decrease the ability of the cock. But that’s not the full picture. Who wants to bottom? The Bottoms, Bottom Vers, Vers, and Top Vers, that’s a lot a gay men, almost everyone. We are not seeing more Bottoms, we are seeing more guys wanting to bottom more often.

Can we fake it?

The question arises. Can we change teams or fake it? For Versatile men who instinctually have desires across all roles and activities, it’s hard for them to imagine that someone wouldn’t. Just like when I think of Versatile sex I shudder at its uncontrolled nature and wonder, ‘who is in charge?’ That is truly my first thought. Being in charge is an enormous erotic driver for Tops. Not having a sense of being in charge can negatively impact arousal, I can attest to this. For a Top or Bottom to fake it, to change and become Versatile, a major focus is the use of the cock and arse. The cock is inherently wired for pleasure, which comes with being a man. Bottoms, however, don’t have a great desire to use it in sex. But they are men, they can be aroused and with practice they can fuck. With regard to the rest of being a Bottom, it’s much harder to act against your desires. You can learn to do things but that doesn’t mean you desire them or enjoy them.

Using the arse is a different story. The arse is not ostensibly designed as a sex organ. Inherently it is not erotically wired unless you are one of the ‘lucky’ men. Without a significant sexual reward it’s not easy to stick something the wrong way up the arse. For this reason Tops have a hard time being fucked and probably don’t get very good at it and never enjoy it. Dominance and submission, structured sex and fixed roles for example are instinctively so important for Tops and Bottoms that outside of this paradigm it can be hard to get satisfying sex.

If they wanted to change and become a Top or Bottom, Versatile men have the advantage of been erotically wired and focussed to have desires across all activities. What they really struggle with is the overt and concentrated presence of dominance and submission, the use of role-play and generally the psychological aspect of sex. These can only come into play when roles are fixed and sex is structured (characteristics of Top/Bottom sex and not Versatile sex).

The main difficulty Versatile men have is participating in the important psychological aspect of Top/Bottom sex. This inability in my experience does not worry them at all. I have concluded that this is the case because they don’t even know that this layer of sex exists for Tops and Bottoms, let alone understand its importance to arousal and satisfying sex. I think that the psychological layer of sex is another thing at the tipping point of the scale that I mentioned. It requires fixed roles and a power differential, neither of which exist with Versatility. It’s incompatible with Versatility and therefore is not a driver, or desired, by Versatile men. Also, rather than try and do activities that they don’t desire, Versatile men who change sides have to resist activities that they do desire.

What’s in a verb?

At this point we should explore the difference between the noun and the verb. The nouns, Bottom and Top, have different usage than the verbs (to top, topping, to bottom, bottoming). The nouns describe the individuals, the verbs the activity of anal sex. A bit confusing but that’s my interpretation of current usage. Online I say I want to meet Bottoms. I then have a constant stream of Bottom Vers and Versatile guys wanting to bottom for me. They mean they want to be fucked in the arse by a Top. I however I am looking for the whole Bottom I described earlier, his erotic buttons match with mine so it’s inevitable I am more likely to get great sex. This is no slight on the Versatile man. Ideally we should drop the use of bottom and top as verbs and name the activities instead. I once heard this:

A Versatile man is never a Bottom.
A Versatile man is never a Top.
A Versatile man is always a Versatile man.
A Versatile man might fuck.
A versatile man might be fucked.
But he is never a Top or a Bottom, he is always a Versatile man.


In the future I hope that Top/Bottom sex and Versatile sex are accepted and that one is not seen as better that the other and that both are considered natural. Neither should impose its sex upon the other. The newly empowered Versatile men need to accept that Tops and Bottoms are different because we are different. It’s nature not nurture that underpins that difference. Bottoms have always been in a vulnerable position; their submissive role puts them there. Fortunately the Top’s role, along with a strong driver for collaboration, protects the Bottom. Versatility does not naturally accommodate a weaker party. Care is needed

It is no accident that a Top is writing this. Traditionally Tops are the teachers and have power. The sexual desires of Tops lead to structured sex, labelling, power, etc. Tops are well placed to recognise these characteristics and their influence. Also, Tops are more likely to spot the absence of these characteristics and the reason for the absence. Young Tops and Bottoms are still coming through the ranks. Bottoms are so unfashionable that anyone saying he is a Bottom these days must be the real deal.

An investigation is needed into the basis and nature of two types of sex appearing in a small population. Homosexuals have never been in this position before in history. With the freedom to follow our sexual desires have we uncovered something unique amongst human beings? What are, will be, the cultural implications. As a minority with in a minority, how are Tops and Bottoms fairing at the moment? I suspect we are on very new ground that is not being properly studied, and I haven’t examined the nurture or learned components of sex. That would be an article of its own.

A final note….

To be true to his desires, a Versatile man must be versatile, as does a Top or Bottom man to his respective fixed roles. It’s the next level that creates the challenge. Versatility presents constant sexual choices; Top/Bottom sex does not. This difference forms the main tension point between the two as I see it today.

About Peter Di Sciascio


Peter is a 55 year old gay man and an avowed Top (if it comes to that). He lives in one of the gay principalities in the inner north of Melbourne, Australia.

From there, he exercises his skills of observation, analysis and understanding, tosses them with degrees in Science and the Arts and hopefully comes out with thoughts and ideas worth listening to.

You can read more of his work here:

Why is society harder on gay men than lesbians?

Why are young gay men so feminine?

Does the legalisation of same-sex marriage bother you?

This entry was posted in Gay Sex on by .

402 thoughts on “Defining Gay Male Sex Roles

  1. Pingback: CROs for PK studies

  2. Pingback: agen judi bola

  3. Pingback: silicon carbide

  4. Pingback: window cleaner in wrexham

  5. Pingback: review

  6. Pingback: 토토사이트

  7. Pingback: agencia de viajes en managua

  8. Pingback:

  9. Pingback: Motorsports Spokesman

  10. Pingback: 코인카지노

  11. Pingback: replica channel shoes

  12. Pingback: 바카라사이트

  13. Pingback: didi referral code

  14. Pingback: 銈儮銉笺儸銉夈儷銉併偋 amore dolce 銉儑銈c兗銈硅厱鏅傝▓ 銇忋伨銉儊銉笺儠 鍏?銈裤偆銉?ad12303 buyee buyee 鏃ユ湰銇€氳博鍟嗗搧 銈兗銈偡銉с兂銇唬鐞嗗叆鏈?浠g悊璩煎叆

  15. Pingback: yeni var谋艧 7.7 7 in莽 tablet pc k谋l谋f谋 viviration unisex ta艧谋nabilir netbook k谋l谋f谋 莽anta 7.9 8

  16. Pingback:

  17. Pingback: partenariat influenceur

  18. Pingback: zapatilla negra le coq sportif eclat cardio print compr谩 ahora

  19. Pingback: hello kitty arabic buy mens quartz watches online at best prices

  20. Pingback: silk satin english couture company

  21. Pingback: montec fawk unisex ski pants khaki

  22. Pingback: my brand sweater trui wolf suit in de kleur black zwart

  23. Pingback: Dream Market

  24. Pingback: 尾伪位喂蟿蟽 魏喂伪 谓蔚蟽蔚蟽 蟻 蟻慰味

  25. Pingback: 纬蠀谓伪喂魏蔚委伪 蟽伪谓未维位喂伪 s. oliver 蟿伪渭蟺维 28122 30 蟺伪蟺慰蠉蟿蟽喂伪

  26. Pingback: poker uang asli

  27. Pingback: link vao w88

  28. Pingback: heart medallion

  29. Pingback: tata bazar kami kuli

  30. Pingback: under armour mens ignite flip flops

  31. Pingback: blusa rayas cuello peter pan manga corta azul m谩s

  32. Pingback: akiem hicks and bobby massie among bears players dealing

  33. Pingback: blanket tote navy philadelphia phillies digital print

  34. Pingback: marvel uomo captain america distressed shield felpa con

  35. Pingback: feel the love with the most romantic gifts for him and her

  36. Pingback: kado meisje 14 jaar

  37. Pingback: under armour under armour youth brawler pants

  38. Pingback: 纬蠀谓伪喂魏蔚委伪 蟺伪谓蟿蔚位蠈谓喂伪 gianni rodini

  39. Pingback: buy the lego city 60228 deep space rocket and launch control

  40. Pingback:

  41. Pingback: designer fox tail keychain

  42. Pingback: zapatos dolce vita de mujer comprar calzado femenino

  43. Pingback: fashion thin summer handsome white long sleeve shirt

  44. Pingback: 18 month girl fall clothes lot outfits sneakers size 5 1738

  45. Pingback: fun88

  46. Pingback: converse shoes high tops pink british flower

  47. Pingback: true religion true religion unisex knit winter beanie

  48. Pingback: gucci tie neck ruffle blouse cettire

  49. Pingback: sun city minnie py啪amo d谩msk茅 kr谩tk茅 膷erven茅

  50. Pingback: wholesale craft item coupons

  51. Pingback: pacsafe venturesafe x40 plus anti theft multi purpose backpack 40l blue

  52. Pingback: billabong mens sundays layback swim trunk at

  53. Pingback: air max 90 jaune

  54. Pingback: festliches jungen hemd mit stehkragen einfarbig mittelblau

  55. Pingback: baby knit cardigan sweater long sleeves wool gray 80cm

  56. Pingback: sterling silver bar studs

  57. Pingback: moncler faux shearling romper off white luisaviaroma non detachable hoodcotton jersey lining

  58. Pingback: boll茅 b yond visor ly啪iarska prilba v铆nov谩 r暖啪ov谩 54 58 cm

  59. Pingback: baby blue lace cami top and panties at crossdress fashions

  60. Pingback: ray ban clubmaster doublebridge

  61. Pingback: rce 1 pcs adjustable knee support with polycentric hinges for professional sports

  62. Pingback: 讞讘专讜转 讻专讟讬住讬 讛讗砖专讗讬 讗诇 砖讜拽 诪住讜驻讬 讛转砖诇讜诐 讙诇讜讘住

  63. Pingback: protezione 50 abbronza

  64. Pingback: nike air max thea rose et noir

  65. Pingback: t锚nis dc shoes trase tx se feminino ilovee

  66. Pingback: halsband flicka med nalle vintage

  67. Pingback: portemonnee clutch grijs

  68. Pingback: see more victorias secret fabulous lined demi bra set 3

  69. Pingback: new pink zebra j2 japanese steel new

  70. Pingback: nike erkek 艧ort bermuda dry academy erkek futbol 艧ortu

  71. Pingback: 转讜祝 诇讬讬讝专 讗讜拽讬 诪拽讜专讬 砖讞讜专 25

  72. Pingback: lululemon athletica accessories

  73. Pingback: erkek penye 艧ort modelleri

  74. Pingback: el naturalista sevilla

  75. Pingback: till dam fr氓n twin set

  76. Pingback: nike sb icon h谩tizs谩k 26 l

  77. Pingback: billige nike epic react flyknit l酶besko herre dame i sort

  78. Pingback: lino perros handbags buy lino perros black faux leather handbag

  79. Pingback: womens cheap lebron soldier 11 halalrf

  80. Pingback: paul smith vigorous paul smith suit cotton men clothes

  81. Pingback: swim pink bedazzled one piece swimsuit

  82. Pingback: jacket 蟽蔚 蠁伪蟻未喂维 维谓蔚蟿畏 纬蟻伪渭渭萎

  83. Pingback: k枚p underst盲ll i set hos outnorth

  84. Pingback: how to wear pyjamas as daywear be modish

  85. Pingback: come fare delle ghirlande natalizie fetznetz

  86. Pingback: giant dje膷ji bicikl adore c b 12 ge

  87. Pingback: zapatillas para correr mujer

  88. Pingback: sneakers senza lacci brillantini gucci

  89. Pingback: acquisto consigliato donna jdy pant pantaloni sky

  90. Pingback: frottee anzug baby

  91. Pingback: zapatillas con ca帽a mujer

  92. Pingback: lebron 16 bo trainer

  93. Pingback: stivaletto basso elegante

  94. Pingback: estuches peque帽os

  95. Pingback: koupit aldo d谩msk茅 膷ern媒 slip on tenisky b臎啪n茅 boty pro

  96. Pingback: reebok felpe ragazzo

  97. Pingback: 2020 new balance 747

  98. Pingback: pige festsko

  99. Pingback: 2020 teen blanca pants

  100. Pingback: jarlo plunge neck midi dress in all over lace yellow women

  101. Pingback: felpa burlon lupo

  102. Pingback: adidas originals stan smith primeknit trainers

  103. Pingback: panic at the disco icons mens black t shirt buy online at

  104. Pingback: mikiny pro p谩ry mousic couple

  105. Pingback: loap tron p谩nsk谩 zimn铆 bunda do m臎sta 膷ern谩

  106. Pingback: tenisice Nike Air Ghost hr

  107. Pingback: bling owl with googly eyes ipod touch 5 case claires

  108. Pingback: new abiti da sera 2018

  109. Pingback: pollini gatteo outlet

  110. Pingback: nouveau style d茅t茅 chaussures homme wos walk on scales

  111. Pingback: 浜屾浼?銉兂銉斻兗銈?銉椼儊銉椼儵

  112. Pingback: lungo tight formal vestiti

  113. Pingback: plakat solsystem planeter

  114. Pingback: alpargata carlos by carlos santana

  115. Pingback: negras converse chuck taylor all star 70s warhol bajo

  116. Pingback: storia maglie inter

  117. Pingback: electrostimulation fessier decathlon

  118. Pingback: ravelry allure shawl 106 pattern by patons

  119. Pingback: brun made in rostvitsvart toppar oversize topp christy

  120. Pingback: dukke kl忙r todelt strikkesett som passer dukker rundt 50 cm

  121. Pingback: 2.5 6mm 14k solid yellow gold mens womens gucci flat mariner chain

  122. Pingback: women fleece lined hooded jacket uniqlo uk

  123. Pingback: pair of small baby socks on orange background royalty free

  124. Pingback: nike tailwind original

  125. Pingback: 2020 adidas samba 41

  126. Pingback: shein doudoune

  127. Pingback: bench parka damen

  128. Pingback: babybj枚rn marsupio marsupio neonato

  129. Pingback: damske spolocenske saty 50

  130. Pingback: nike air force af1

  131. Pingback: los angeles lakers lebron james 2018 19 association edition swingman j team la store

  132. Pingback: zapatos keds mujer

  133. Pingback: nike football snapdeal

  134. Pingback: m盲dchen geschenkideen

  135. Pingback: calvin klein ck swimwear ba帽ador para azul w2 428

  136. Pingback: rare vtg champion notre dame fighting irish mascot logo ringer t shirt 90s sz xl

  137. Pingback: gant polo t shirt

  138. Pingback: best offers skechers flex appeal 2.0 break free women black

  139. Pingback: pantaloni donna economici

  140. Pingback: red ball gown di linea

  141. Pingback: danseuse homme rose taille m l chez cash 脿

  142. Pingback: champion c logo t shirt grey melange jaspe bei

  143. Pingback: sandals for women rainbow

  144. Pingback: 蟺伪喂蠂谓喂未喂伪 尉胃渭尾慰

  145. Pingback: valentino rockstud slides

  146. Pingback: euro 2016 niemcy

  147. Pingback: panelled fleece zip hoodie

  148. Pingback: donde puedo conseguir botas timberland

  149. Pingback: moda curvy 5 tendenze per lautunno inverno 2019 2020

  150. Pingback: d谩mska kabelka mils 14 膷ierna e shop

  151. Pingback: an膽eo 146 po narud啪bi

  152. Pingback: 2020 navy modr茅 jordans

  153. Pingback: womens piper myer

  154. Pingback: zelen茅 拧aty spole膷ensk茅

  155. Pingback: love moschino bauletto trapuntato rosso de silvestri rosso bauletto

  156. Pingback: solde chaussure femme pas cher

  157. Pingback: ekologiska barnkl盲der. angelica lagergren

  158. Pingback: sports shoes for womens nike footwear

  159. Pingback: fur slides puma fenty

  160. Pingback: f茅rfi pecs茅tgy疟r疟 bizsu

  161. Pingback: boje za lice fantasy aqua make up

  162. Pingback: 未伪谓蟿蔚位伪 魏喂蟺慰蠀蟻 蟿喂渭畏

  163. Pingback: tips voor low budget sportkleding

  164. Pingback: robe de bapteme pas cher fille

  165. Pingback: cooler rucksack leder optik schulrucksack sport reise

  166. Pingback: 褉械泻谢邪屑薪邪褟 泻邪屑锌邪薪懈褟 love republic andy

  167. Pingback: krups kp 1205 nescaf茅 dolce gusto mini me k谩v茅f艖z艖

  168. Pingback: zlat谩 pali膷ka galanta 2016 ma啪oretky spirit senica album

  169. Pingback: lux ffp2 r茅szecskesz疟r艖 maszk szeleppel

  170. Pingback: seahawks female jersey

  171. Pingback: produkt suchen kurze wei脽e kleider standesamt brautkleider

  172. Pingback: شخصية هواوي حالة العالم خريطة السفر اذهبوا حافظة لهاتف Huawei P10 P20 P30 لايت برو حالة

  173. Pingback: nike lunar legendx 7 pro 10r turf soccer cleats

  174. Pingback: Personalizado iphone xs max caso carcasa blanda para iPhone 6

  175. Pingback: pe艌a啪enka f煤zy sveta

  176. Pingback: carcasa tablet huawei

  177. Pingback: co pro t谩tu k v谩noc暖m

  178. Pingback: laptop sleeve cover

  179. Pingback: amazon 銈广偙銉冦儊銉c兗銈?銉°兂銈恒偣銉嬨兗銈兗 銈︺偐銉笺偔銉炽偘

  180. Pingback: find the best deals on guess saniya printed cold shoulder romper

  181. Pingback: شخصية سامسونج حقيبة لهاتف سامسونج غالاكسي A3 A5 J1 S7 حافة S8 s9 plus نوت 8 9 قضية الماء السائل لطيف ميني لينة غطاء من البولي يوريثان الحراري

  182. Pingback: مشخصنة iphone xs حالة مجردة عاشق الوجه لينة TPU ماتي حالة Fundas كوكه غطاء ل iphone 6 6s X 5S SE حالة 11Pro

  183. Pingback: zapatillas adidas stabil x

  184. Pingback: le livre des tables petits avec les morts

  185. Pingback: donna taglie forti abito da sera partito cocktail vestito

  186. Pingback: 2020 100D كامل الزجاج المقسى لسامسونج غالاكسي نوت 10 برو S8 S9 S10 زائد غطاء شاشة حامي نوت 9 8 لايت طبقة رقيقة واقية

  187. Pingback: 讘讙讚 讬诐 砖诇诐 讚讙诐 parana 讙讝专讛 专讙讬诇讛

  188. Pingback: angol bulldog kiskuty谩k

  189. Pingback: ipanema obu膰a sive boje

  190. Pingback: d谩mske asics onitsuka

  191. Pingback: desigual pantalones vaqueros mujer

  192. Pingback: michael kors klassiska armband dam p氓 n盲tet rosaguldf盲rgad

  193. Pingback: 讛诪爪注讚 26 讛讻诇讜转 讛诪驻讜专住诪讜转 砖诇 讻诇 讛讝诪谞讬诐 style weddings

  194. Pingback: leading lady front closure bra

  195. Pingback: 专讗讬讜谉 讗讬砖讬 注诐 诪讬讬住讚转 讛住讟讜讚讬讜 讜讬拽讟讜专讬讛 讘讬讟专 住讟讜讚讬讜 诇砖诪诇讜转

  196. Pingback: hnede sako panske

  197. Pingback: calzado samba mujer adidas espa帽a

  198. Pingback: plecak dakine campus mini 18l tabor

  199. Pingback: okos doboz m谩sodikos vagyok oktat贸 j谩t茅k pendrive 2. oszt谩ly v茅lem茅nyek

  200. Pingback: tanie swetry damskie promocje w sklepie internetowym top

  201. Pingback: amazon herren bademantel

  202. Pingback: camisas para taller mecanico

  203. Pingback: 讟讘注讜转 charmin s gifted

  204. Pingback: ny converse all star ox svart tygskor dam p氓 rea

  205. Pingback: bambas nike hombre blancas

  206. Pingback: high coast family kleding fj盲llr盲ven

  207. Pingback: conjunto de malas em promo莽茫o nas lojas

  208. Pingback: Yeezy

  209. Pingback: 渭蟺慰蠀蠁伪谓 魏慰魏魏喂谓慰 pepe jeans desigual

  210. Pingback: jual chanel vip gift chanel chain canvas tote bag silver kota

  211. Pingback: puma sneaker cip艖 st runner v2nl puma fekete feh茅r euro m茅retek 36

  212. Pingback: catalogue veste homme

  213. Pingback: aparatos auditivos costco

  214. Pingback: comprar saida de maternidade

  215. Pingback: all Rosa jordan 1

  216. Pingback: pakovanje za masnu kosu

  217. Pingback: Yeezy 380

  218. Pingback: d谩mska mikina adidas trefoil hoodie 膷ierna

  219. Pingback: ينطبق iPhone11 XS ماكس حقيبة هاتف محمول مخصص Apex أساطير لعبة المحمول بطل الغطاء الواقي متجمد جراب هاتف مصنوع خصيصًا

  220. Pingback: inglesina torba za previjanje dual bag

  221. Pingback: NFL Jerseys

  222. Pingback: nike jr. phantom venom

  223. Pingback: 1950s shoes styles

  224. Pingback: azul y blanca vest

  225. Pingback: pesi turistika

  226. Pingback: zapatos adidas superstar originales

  227. Pingback: protetor auricular para nata莽茫o

  228. Pingback: polo de ralph lauren hombre

  229. Pingback: Yeezy 350

  230. Pingback: k拧iltovka new era 950 on field nfl17 green bay packers

  231. Pingback: blouson cuir souple femme

  232. Pingback: hyundai h100 alkatr茅szek

  233. Pingback: cal莽a prote莽茫o uv

  234. Pingback: nejnov臎j拧铆 converse chuck taylor all star hi n谩mo艡nick谩 mod艡

  235. Pingback: Nike Outlet

  236. Pingback: 毓乇賮 毓賱賶 兀爻亘丕亘 賰賵賳 丨氐賶 丕賱賰賱賶 賵丕賱毓賱丕噩 丕賱兀賲孬賱

  237. Pingback: gorra tigresadidas

  238. Pingback: nefa name拧taj ugaone garniture

  239. Pingback: salon 3 places 2 fauteuils

  240. Pingback: prezzo orecchini le beb猫

  241. Pingback: Pandora Jewelry Official Site

  242. Pingback: slam dunk comp

  243. Pingback: zapatos de seguridad con puntera de policarbonato

  244. Pingback: asics pfm beanie medium large black clothing

  245. Pingback: tenxin bikini ladies micro wetlook mini bikini set brillo

  246. Pingback: ugg montrose sverige rea uggs sneakers dam svarta outlet

  247. Pingback: bu膹chlap fantasti膷na bordo jakna za zimu

  248. Pingback: anello 100 in acciaio. cuore sacro limited edition

  249. Pingback: moda bolsas 2018

  250. Pingback: moomin 5164 3 muumi lasten tapetit verkkokauppa

  251. Pingback: shelovet pink laced sport sko

  252. Pingback: 蔚位位畏谓喂魏畏蟽 蟻伪蠁畏蟽 蟻慰蠀蠂伪

  253. Pingback: forma ideale barske stolice

  254. Pingback: iskrica slike 啪ena prona膽ite djevojku

  255. Pingback: cappotto a doppio petto donna gucci

  256. Pingback: emag reduceri la iphone 6s si 6s plus

  257. Pingback: mapy panoramy miast naklejki 艣cienne welurowe wikam

  258. Pingback: angesagte unterw盲sche frauen

  259. Pingback: madewell tops madewell cotton v neck pocket tank bundle

  260. Pingback: sweat gris imprimer svnty

  261. Pingback: sony cyber shot dsc rx100 vi 拽讗诪专讛

  262. Pingback: uomo logo slim t camicia top bianche

  263. Pingback: delicate dew drops bracelet dainty chain bracelet thin gold chain layering bracelet dew drops bracelet by layered and long

  264. Pingback: kokonanny ergonomic infant bed

  265. Pingback: core cargo lite short

  266. Pingback: 诪注砖谞转 讘砖专讬诐 讘讬转讬转 masterbuilt

  267. Pingback: mochilas de marcas famosas masculinas

  268. Pingback: under armour tactical ua tac tech long sleeve shirt 1 4 zip black 3xl 1285765

  269. Pingback: adidas performance botines zapatos botas botas y ni帽o para la

  270. Pingback: c3 b6nemli olan c5 9f c4 b1kl c4 b1k m c4 b1 sa c4 9fl c4 b1k m c4 b1 magazin haberleri

  271. Pingback: adidas portfel damski

  272. Pingback: neonati crema solare

  273. Pingback: silkecement komplet metallic kobber

  274. Pingback: heine bettw盲sche 155 x 200

  275. Pingback: chaussures en daim sk8 hi mte

  276. Pingback: eta takar铆t贸g茅p

  277. Pingback: casque intra pods st茅r茅o violet avec micro et t茅l茅commande fiche

  278. Pingback: 丕賵賳賵乇夭 賳馗丕乇丕 卮賲爻賷丞 亘賵賱丕乇丕賷夭丿 亘丕胤丕乇 賲毓丿賳 賱乇賷丕囟丞 賯賷丕丿丞 丕賱丿乇丕噩丕 賲賯丕賵賲丞 賱賱乇賷丕丨

  279. Pingback: tuta per meccanico

  280. Pingback: vrata protiv komaraca. najezda uskoro

  281. Pingback: kort nederdel i sort jersey fra mongul

  282. Pingback: etui ipod touch 6

  283. Pingback: vand pantofi stiletto deosebiti din lac

  284. Pingback: blue and white striped shirt mens short sleeve

  285. Pingback: lampe outlet

  286. Pingback: matrosen t shirt kleid blau baby m盲dchen oka茂di oba茂bi

  287. Pingback: siesta richter lila vir谩gos cipz谩ras f疟z艖s sympatex t茅li csizma

  288. Pingback: 锌褉芯写邪褞 褏芯褉芯褕褍褞 泻芯卸邪薪褍褞 褋褍屑泻褍 泻褍锌懈褌褜 胁 泻褉邪褋薪芯写邪褉褋泻芯屑 泻褉邪械 薪邪

  289. Pingback: p谩nske n谩ramky tommy hilfiger

  290. Pingback: compre natuweco vintage hombres mujeres metal lentes moda ronda

  291. Pingback: coque bape samsung galaxy note 8.0

  292. Pingback: hosengr枚脽e 29

  293. Pingback: ferrets in costumes

  294. Pingback: 4400 mah 8 cella fekete notebook laptop akku akkumul谩tor ut谩ngy谩rtott

  295. Pingback: weisse poloshirts f眉r herren

  296. Pingback: parete attrezzata in legno

  297. Pingback: kohteet asuntomessut

  298. Pingback: fashion e shop 渭蟺蠈蟿蔚蟼 蟿蠉蟺慰蠀 蟽慰蠀苇谓蟿 渭蔚 蠄畏位蠈 蟿伪魏慰蠉谓喂 brown 002 3239

  299. Pingback: comfortable composite toe shoes

  300. Pingback: slu啪bena hrvatska zastava 150 300 cm

  301. Pingback: balenciaga orange papier large bag in alderley edge

  302. Pingback: philips qg3340 16 szak谩llv谩g贸

  303. Pingback: keki nagy nyak煤 hossz铆tott fels艖

  304. Pingback: tee shirt a paillette femme

  305. Pingback: kit capilar banho de verniz belkit 36 produtos

  306. Pingback: escapam salto

  307. Pingback: obchod so zbranami

  308. Pingback: pogledajte video

  309. Pingback: 谐懈褌邪褉褘 懈 懈褏 褑械薪褘

  310. Pingback: maillot de basket nba lebron

  311. Pingback: asics gel sensei 5 mt w 0125

  312. Pingback: razili 讙讘讬讝 诪讜转讙讬诐

  313. Pingback: strapless bubble dress

  314. Pingback: homeware stores sydney

  315. Pingback: lego creator expert 10259 kar谩csonyi p谩lyaudvar 茅p铆t艖j谩t茅k

  316. Pingback: football factor x 17 purespeed fg gyep

  317. Pingback: where to buy charcoal powder for face mask

  318. Pingback: cute travel purse

  319. Pingback: lovasbolt nyitvatart谩s gyula

  320. Pingback: head tennisschoenen online kopen tennis point

  321. Pingback: tek kullan谋ml谋k eldiven fiyatlar谋

  322. Pingback: 诪转谞讛 诇讙讬诇 30 讟讬住转 讞讜讜讬讛 讘讟专拽讟讜专讜谉 诪注讜驻祝

  323. Pingback: tie拧ais elektr墨bas vads aksesu膩ri radardetektori auto

  324. Pingback: sch枚llis kletterladen in eichst盲tt

  325. Pingback: index kult煤r tr贸nok harca 4 ebb艖l m谩r nem lehet j贸l

  326. Pingback: feliratos b枚gre

  327. Pingback: schnittmuster langer rock

  328. Pingback: giacca di pelle con cappuccio gucci

  329. Pingback: triple s oversized trainers

  330. Pingback: telefon t枚lt艖 aut贸ba

  331. Pingback: marque vetement oliver

  332. Pingback: pull laine col rond femme

  333. Pingback: mochila monta帽a 60 litros de segunda mano por 15 en ugeraga en

  334. Pingback: ply拧ov媒 drak bezzubka

  335. Pingback: topshop black manteaux

  336. Pingback: manic panic recensioni

  337. Pingback: 銉愩兂銈?vans zio ziegler 銈广儖銉笺偒銉?銈儵銈枫儍銈?銈广儶銉冦儩銉?zio

  338. Pingback: stivali liu gio

  339. Pingback: cool bookbags for school

  340. Pingback: 銈炽兗銉?銈广儓銉笺儷 銈偊銉堛儸銉冦儓

  341. Pingback: pigiama bambina natale di happy people in caldo cotone 4452 u139

  342. Pingback: bodyflirt ciemnozielona bluzka 40 ks zdj臋cie

  343. Pingback: kask integralny

  344. Pingback: top 10 meilleurs ordinateurs bureau pas cher 2019 pc et mac et

  345. Pingback: monederos guess dama monederos y carteras de mujer en mercado

  346. Pingback: pantalon de sport

  347. Pingback: 丕賱賮乇毓 丕賱孬丕賱孬 賳賲賵匕噩 賱賱賮賯賴 丕賱噩丿賷丿 賮賷 丿乇丕爻丞 賲賵囟賵毓 丕賱賲乇兀丞 賮賷

  348. Pingback: b盲sts盲ljande deep blue enf盲rgad top fr氓n cecil

  349. Pingback: d谩mske oble膷enie pinko

  350. Pingback: womens porutofoiyu joy tri fold wallet monogram multi color pvc leather white

  351. Pingback: pearl necklace pink rose broken china jewelry special occasion anniversary gift for her

  352. Pingback: newbikiniphoto 氐賵乇 丕賱亘賳丕 賵丕賱賲賲孬賱丕 丕賱賲孬賷乇丕 亘丕賱亘賰賷賳賷

  353. Pingback: camisa p贸lo lee de homem comprar barata

  354. Pingback: kronike grega heffleyja jeff kinney

  355. Pingback: gift box with red bow ribbon and paper heart on white

  356. Pingback: noeud papillon bleu en denim bio the

  357. Pingback: black friday solde

  358. Pingback: pinarello hrvatska

  359. Pingback: jbl headphones cover

  360. Pingback: zapatillas asics indoor

  361. Pingback: little remix kjole

  362. Pingback: skinny denim overalls

  363. Pingback: zelena haljina od pli拧a ni拧

  364. Pingback: zapatillas futbol sala para mujer

  365. Pingback: tektronix 500 mhz oscilloscope

  366. Pingback: rachel zoe velvet suit

  367. Pingback: australian lego sales april 2016 jays brick blog

  368. Pingback: casquette femme rose

  369. Pingback: iphone 5 t枚lt艖 csatlakoz贸

  370. Pingback: zip hoodie zip hoody dark grey

  371. Pingback: zapato colegio gorila twister 1.4 mm

  372. Pingback: pamela mann halterlose str眉mpfe mit spitzenbund

  373. Pingback: ko艅c贸wki do suszarki

  374. Pingback: quien compra cabello natural humano en bogota belleza y

  375. Pingback: azad茅 蟿蟽维谓蟿伪 纬魏蟻委 渭蔚 蟿蟻慰蠀魏蟼

  376. Pingback: tshirt manche longue gris made in

  377. Pingback: steren aud 776 audifono inalambrico negro con rojo amazon

  378. Pingback: scatole cartoncino

  379. Pingback: tilbud p氓 fidelio sko og sandaler

  380. Pingback: zapatillas nike air vapormax plus con caja usa nuevas

  381. Pingback: blandare fm mattsson pris

  382. Pingback: couverts pas cher grande quantit茅

  383. Pingback: camel 蟺伪蟺慰蠀蟿蟽喂伪 伪谓未蟻喂魏伪

  384. Pingback: borselli in cuoio da uomo

  385. Pingback: dijital kontak termometre 眉reticileri ve tedarik莽iler fabrika

  386. Pingback: nike freizeitschuhe md runner 2 kinder

  387. Pingback: Cdi 氐賳丿賵賯 丕賱卮丕毓賱 賱 亘賵賱丕乇賷爻 爻亘賵乇鬲爻賲丕賳 400 500 丕賱丨丕乇爻 鬲卮賵賷卮 廿匕丕毓賷 3089238 3090232 丕賰爻爻賵丕乇丕鬲 丕賱爻賷丕乇丕鬲 賵丕賱丿乇丕噩丕鬲 丕賱

  388. Pingback: innerommet m酶bler p氓 nett

  389. Pingback: Acess贸rios de cabelo de natal de natal de alta qualidade de natal de alta qualidade

  390. Pingback: 胁邪褉芯褔薪邪褟 锌邪薪械谢褜 懈 写褍褏芯胁芯泄 褕泻邪褎 褑械薪邪

  391. Pingback: assiette jetable anniversaire

  392. Pingback: black mesh babydoll with choker and g string sexy womens lingerie

  393. Pingback: ropa interior lody para hombres boxer de algodon y lycra 826

  394. Pingback: manteau longue femme parka hiver de col en fourrure mode doudoune

  395. Pingback: Vnox Eagle Necklace Pendant for Men Stainless Steel Metal LIVE TO RIDE Punk Jewelry

  396. Pingback: cheap plus size royal blue dresses

  397. Pingback: repair kit brake caliper stripped broken bleeder screw 7 16 20 harley custom

  398. Pingback: okulary polaryzacyjne rowerowe

  399. Pingback: k rm z el antasi k rm z el antasi

  400. Pingback: sunroyal flip magnetic wallet etui pour samsung galaxy s7

  401. Pingback: underwear for women thong

  402. Pingback: lojas br谩s atacado

Comments are closed.