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Drag. Politics. Social Media. Cosplay. Bears. Sex. Equality. Identity…It seems that the cultural forces at play in the world today have created the perfect storm for a gay art explosion.
The Gay Art Explosion
Category Archives: Gay Life
4 Seriously Smart & Sexy Gay Magazines
With the media, and specifically print media, in a state of decline and chaos, here are 4 seriously smart and sexy gay magazines that are killing it right now.
One Magical Weekend: The Ultimate Guide
Thinking of going to One Magical Weekend? Want to know more about it? You’ve come to the right place! Explore the ultimate guide to One Magical Weekend.
Get To Know: Conor McKenzie
Conor McKenzie is a dancer, model, teacher with a massive social media following. It was a pleasure to interview Conor and find out more about him.
Feast Of Fun: My Favourite Gay Podcast
Feast Of Fun is my personal, favourite gay podcast. It’s unique, original and in-depth coverage has been a huge source of inspiration to me.
Bob Mizer’s Physique Pictorial Magazine Returns
Image credit: Bob Mizer Foundation
In commemoration of the passing of male physique photographer Bob Mizer 25 years ago in May 1992, the Bob Mizer Foundation has just announced that it will relaunch his groundbreaking and controversial magazine, Physique Pictorial in August 2017.
Davey Duzit – Australia’s First Gay Hip Hop Star
Davey Duzit returns with a blistering new EP. Gay sex, assault, health scares, relationships and exclusion, it’s all covered. Davey is back and he’s got something to say.
Briefs Close Encounters – The Magic Is Still There
The Briefs boys are back! ‘Close Encounters’ is the follow up to their international smash hit show ‘Briefs: The Second Coming’. So how does the new show stack up?
Ron Amato Delivers An Emotional Punch With ‘The Box’
Respected New York photographer Ron Amato’s latest book, ‘The Box’ is a stunning, emotionally impactful commentary about the state of contemporary gay men.
Are You Awake?
Are you fully present and awake in your life? Are you aware of what’s going on around you and of your own behaviour? And would you know if you weren’t?
3 Changes I’d Love To See In ‘Grace and Frankie’ Season 3
‘Grace and Frankie’ is one of my favourite shows to come along in a long time. Here are my ideas for 3 changes I’d like to see in the third season of the show.
Gay Men & Body Image Issues
Whether we’re trying to pack on muscle, lose fat or pursue whatever we consider to be the ‘ideal body’, many gay men experience some sort of body image issues.
The Blue Penis Project
The Blue Penis Project is the brainchild of Australian artist Claude, who celebrates diversity, individuality and masculinity by finely painting blue penises.
Is Zac Efron Gay – And Why Do We Care?
Why do we love to speculate whether Zac Efron is gay, or Hugh Jackman, James Franco, or any other successful, attractive male celebrity for that matter?
Love Is Blind Premiers On Dekkoo
Following on from the hit drama “Feral,” gay streaming service Dekkoo is releasing their second original series, “Love Is Blind” on Valentine’s Day.
Nostalgic For The 90s
I’m a 1980s baby, which means that the 90s were my formative years. The music, attitudes and pervasive pop culture of that time have shaped who I am today.
You’ve Been Beyonced
If you think Beyonce is at her career peak right now, or that ‘Lemonade’ is her best album to date, I’ve got news for you – you’ve been Beyonced.
Ru Paul’s Drag Race Season 9 Realness
Get the latest episode recaps of Ru Paul’s Drag race season 9 from one of the world’s biggest RPDR superfans. Put the kettle on because THIS. IS. THE. T.
Chatting With: Samuel Anthony Harwit
I’m a huge fan of Samuel Anthony Harwit. So, I was beyond thrilled to have the opportunity to chat with him. Check out the interview below.
Coming Full Circle
2016 has been a huge year for the Little Gay Blog. I’m taking a moment – a full circle moment – seeing where the year started and how it’s ended up.
Ru Paul’s Drag Race KiKi
Need some Ru Paul’s Drag Race in you life? Then check out my kiki with one of the world’s most devoted and knowledgable Ru Paul’s Drag Race superfans!
Crafty Lumberjacks Will Get You In The Festive Mood
A couple who crafts together stays together. Just ask Andrew and Dennis (aka the Crafty Lumberjacks). They’ve got some great ideas to get you in the festive mood.
Eliad Cohen: On Partying, Pride & Pulse
In many ways, Eliad Cohen is the epitome of the gay party scene. His Papa Party is one of the most successful gay dance parties in the world right now.
Every Gay Guy Has Style
Style isn’t the exclusive domain of the young, thin or rich. I believe every gay guy – no matter age, weight or income – can find their own sense of style.
The Rise (And Fall?) Of Gay Media
Gay media fascinates me. As ‘gay becomes mainstream’, the question is: do we still need our own media, and if we do, how should that media represent and reflect us?
Actually Looking Forward To 40
Having just passed the half way mark of my 30s, my thoughts are slowly starting to turn towards the big 4-0. And you know what? I’m actually excited!
ISIS – A (Gay) Love Story
The Syrian war and the emergence of ISIS serve as the unlikely backdrop for a gay ‘jihad-erotica’ love story designed to send an anti-ISIS message.
We’re Not Post-Gay Yet
It will be great to live in a world where being gay is fully accepted and normal. I’m confident that we will get there one day. We’re just not there yet.
Tommy DiDario: The World Needs More Love
Never have these words been truer. After the tragedy at Pulse nightclub in Orlando, we as a worldwide community, responded with love. That was a choice.
Beard Oil – Gimmick Or Grooming Essential?
When a barber recently applied beard oil – and it made my beard smell great and feel smooth – it got me thinking, is beard oil more than just a gimmick?
How To Feel Fulfilled As A Lonely, Shy Gay Gay
GUEST POST – Founder of Your Success Launch, Max DuBowy shares his experience and advice on how to feel fulfilled if you’re a lonely, shy gay guy.
Spirituality And Success Can Co-Exist
I recently had a huge a-ha moment. I realised, for the first time in my life, that spirituality can actually co-exist with success, focus, ambition and hard work.
Embracing, Not Just Accepting Ageing
As my 36th birthday approaches, I feel happier and healthier than ever. I’ve gone from accepting ageing to actually embracing, heck even looking forward to it!
Some Good Gay News
Tuning in to the news these days can be depressing. So here’s a news grab of five interesting, uplifting and positive gay news stories, from media outlets all over the world.
Queer Identities In Germany 1880-1945
‘Queer Identities and Politics in Germany’ offers a fascinating insight into what it meant to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender in Germany between 1880-1945.
10 Gems From ‘Gay Therapy’
Nick Fager is a psychotherapist practising in New York City. On his Instagram page ‘Gay Therapy’, he shares some great insights into many areas of modern gay life.
Garçon Model Talks Diversity
Diversity, or rather the lack thereof, is a big topic these days. So I reached out to Garçon Model, an underwear brand (as you do), to get their thoughts about diversity.
Mr And Mr Vegan
Veganism has a PR problem. Too often associated with hippies or latte-sipping lefties, veganism actually has a lot to offer the non-hippy, non latte-loving gay guy.
Harrison Blythe Slays On Sophomore ‘San Ramon’
Harrison Blythe follows up his instant classic debut, ‘Fatal Highway’, with a beautifully crafted collection of tracks on sophomore album ‘San Ramon’.
Why I’ll Never Be Instagay Hot (& Why I’m Totally OK With It)
I’ll never be Instagay hot. This isn’t a pity me statement, or even a depressing one. It’s just reality. And it’s a reality that I have fully and wholeheartedly embraced.
Benjamin Law – Gaysia, Greatness And Beyond
Benjamin Law is the ultimate slashie. He’s a newspaper columnist / TV screenwriter / journalist / author / activist, who also happens to have a PhD in creative writing and cultural studies.
The Benefits Of Choosing Not To Come Out
It’s assumed that all gay people will at some stage in their lives, come out. Or at least that they should. The base assumption has been that to come out is the right / proper thing to do.
Boys Of Life
Boys of Life is an arousing, provocative and visually stunning film series that captures the beauty of the male body, as well as the spirit of poetry.
Making Gay Friends After 30 (Part 3)
Acceptance
Instead of making, and not keeping, a whole bunch of resolutions, this new year I’m doing something different. I am going to focus on one thing and one thing only for the new year.
Social Media & Getting Older
I remember a time when even having your mobile phone on the table was considered inappropriate. Or when watching TV was enough to keep you entertained.
Why Is Everyone Coming Out On YouTube – And Is That A Bad Thing?
These days, it seems that everyone is coming out on YouTube. Why has YouTube become such a popular way for people to come out – and is it a bad thing?
Is Social Media Making Us Un-Sociable?
Social media’s goals are lofty. It’s designed to bring us together. To connect people all over the world. But does it actually, really do any of that?
Baldness Isn’t Just About Losing Hair
A thick set of luscious locks is considered one of the ultimate symbols of male-ness. So it’s only logical that when you start to lose your hair, it can be pretty traumatic.
New Artist Alert – Harrison Blythe
Harrison Blythe makes some seriously good music. Which is kind of weird coming from me, given I tuned out of pop(ular) music about a decade ago.
Global Pride Summit Reflections
EXCLUSIVE – Founder of the Global Pride Summit, Mark Anthony Lord shares his reflections on creating the world’s first ever Global Pride Summit and how it went.
Is Happiness Worth It?
Happiness. It’s something we all strive for. Pretty much all of our actions are based on wanting to get happy. But do we ever really actually arrive at a happy place?
Could You Go Back To High School?
My high school years (92-97) weren’t a great experience for me. It seems everyone knew I was gay (before I did, inconveniently enough) and everyone seemed to have a problem with it.
LGBT Teen Suicide: Keep The Conversation Going
The issue of LGBT teen suicide hit the gay and mainstream consciousness in a big way in 2010. In the years since, how much has really changed?
Cleaning As Meditation
Cleaning and housework aren’t exactly at the top of my fun priority list. Yet I’ve noticed that cleaning has some surprising and completely unexpected consequences.
5 Reasons Why Hook Up Apps Aren’t Closing Down Gay Bars
Co-owners of Urge – Auckland’s longest running gay venue, Paul Heard and Alan Granville, were understandably upset at the recent closure of their business.
10 Reasons To Love ‘Looking’
The HBO show ‘Looking’ has received a mixed response since it first aired. At times, it’s been compared unfavourably to the seminal series ‘Queer as Folk’.
Confessions of a ‘Drag Race’ Virgin
I know it’s hard to believe now, but up until the start of 2015, I was a ‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ virgin. I had heard about the show, but had never watched an episode.
Hello Sunday Morning
Hello Sunday Morning is a great initiative I came across fortuitously over the new year break. Yes, that’s right. I admit, I’m one of those new year’s resolutioners.
Porn Again: A Memoir
Put simply, Porn Again: A Memoir is great book! I started reading it and It quickly become a book that I couldn’t put down, staying up way past my bedtime to finish it.
Exploring Gay Health
Gay health is often synonymous with issues such as HIV/AIDS or other sexually transmitted infections. These are important issues that need to be addressed.
When Comfort Food Doesn’t Bring Comfort
Damn those mid-afternoon munchies. The ones that make you forage through your fridge and pantry in every hastening circles of panic.
Gay Blog – A Starter’s Guide
One of the reasons why I started a ‘gay blog’ was because I was inspired by the great writing of other gay bloggers. I’m by no means an expert, but I have learnt a few things.
Are You A ‘Non Scene’ Gay Dude?
Getting Older…And Happier
Getting older – and happier. These four words are not a mistake or misprint, dear reader. They are in fact, a reflection of something that is actually possible.
Why ‘I Don’t Know’ Can Sometimes Be The Best Answer
Our relationship with needing to know is an interesting one. Some people are OK with not knowing. but for most of us, not knowing equates to fear, so we try to avoid it.
Dealing With Homophobia Online
Homophobia has many forms. It can be violence, physical intimidation, discrimination and unequal treatment. It can also come in the form of words.
HERO Condoms Save Lives – Twice
I love the concept of one-for-one giving. It means that if an organisation is selling shoes, for every pair of shoes it sells, another pair is donated to a community in need.
Celebrating The Small
The Little Gay Blog recently turned 1 year old. It’s an achievement that I’m very proud of, as it does takes time, effort and motivation to keep the blog going.
Loving Your Body
For the first time in my life, I feel good about the way I look. And guess what? I don’t have washboard abs, massive biceps and I’ll probably never be a gay magazine cover model.
HIV & Life Insurance
Until recently, trying to get life insurance after being diagnosed with HIV or diabetes has up until now, been extremely difficult, if not impossible to do.
Some Thoughts On Gay Labels
Humans create labels to understand things. One label can lead to another. In this way, you can go from human to male to gay. But gay isn’t always the end of the label line.
Embrace Your Thirties!
Screw the youth obsessed culture we live in. Even if I could, I wouldn’t want to go back in time and and re-live my 20s all over again. The 30s are where it’s at, baby!
Working Out For Life
Are you a yo-yo gym rat? You go hard for short periods of time, only to find a mountain of excuses (work, social life) to allow months to elapse between gym visits?
Are You Approachable?
It’s easy to lament the decline of the gay scene in recent years. But regardless of whether the scene is in decline or not – when you do venture out, are you approachable?
Australia Needs A Dan Savage
America’s most well known gay activist, Dan Savage recently visited Australia. He impressed with a compelling communication style and razor sharp intellect.
Living In A Gay Cocoon
In an increasing number of places around Australia and the world, you can live in essentially, a gay cocoon.
OX Live – Gay Digital Radio
Like a lot of you, I enjoy hearing from a diverse range of voices. This week, I had the pleasure of interviewing OX Live Founder, Brooklyn Ross.
Say Hello To Archer Magazine
Archer Magazine is a magazine documenting and celebrating sexual diversity in Australia. It’s new. It’s so new that a print edition hasn’t even been released yet.
Making Gay Friends After 30 (Part 2)
Does forming new, meaningful friendships with other gay guys get harder as you get older? And does being in a relationship add another layer of complexity?
Agreeing To Disagree
I recently wrote an article asking if we’re perhaps too focused on marriage equality. I started by stating I am a 100% supporter of marriage equality.
We Are All Beautiful
I believe there’s beauty in diversity. As a wonderfully diverse group, beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, colours, races and ages within our LGBT community.
The Outs
The Outs is a web series that is better than any other ‘gay TV show’ at the moment (I’m looking at you Modern Family). It’s well written, witty and a little bit indie.
Finding Meaning – Why Questions Are Just As Good As Answers
I’m 32 years old and feel that I’m relatively sorted. And yet, I don’t think I’ve figured out the meaning of my life. Or even what I’m meant to be doing with my life.
5 Myths About Gay Monogamy
I think gay monogamy is a little misunderstood, especially by gay men themselves. However, this isn’t a ‘Why gay monogamy is better than…’ article.
Matthew Mitcham: Twists and Turns
Twists and Turns by Matthew Mitcham is an honest, revealing and well written book. Mathew Mitcham is a high profile gay Olympic gold medallist.
Making Gay Friends After 30
Is it possible to make new gay friends after 30, or is forming new, long-lasting friendships something that stops at a certain age? Well, I’m about to find out.