Welcome to the Little Gay Blog!

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The Little Gay Blog offers a unique take on a range of issues of interest to gay guys.
These issues include gay rights, love & relationships, sex, friendships, growing up, getting older, becoming healthy and finding happiness.

My goal with the blog is to create articles that give voice to a wide range of ideas and opinions.
I hope you find the articles interesting, inspiring, thought provoking and above all, enjoyable!

I really do hope you like the blog, and again, thanks for taking the time to check it out!

Paul xo

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33 Gay Instagram Pages Worth Following

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The Little Gay Blog has only recently joined Instagram. Using Instagram primarily for the blog, I follow a lot of what could be called, ‘gay Instagram’ accounts. These are accounts of either gay people or gay businesses. Over the last few months, some gay Instagram pages have really stood out. Here I present to you, 33 gay Instagram pages worth following (in no particular order).

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Making Gay Friends After 30 (Part 3)

friends-headerMy quest to make new gay friends, has in some ways, come full circle. (You can catch up with Part 1 and Part 2 here). I’ve gone from not having gay friends, but wanting to have some. To actively seeking and making gay friends, but it wasn’t as good as I thought it would be. To having just a couple of close gay friends, which is just fine with me. Let me explain.

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Instead of making, and not keeping, a whole bunch of resolutions, this new year I’m doing something different. I am going to focus on one thing and one thing only for the new year. And that one thing is acceptance.

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Top 5 of 2015

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The top 5 of 2015 is a great chance to look back on the year that’s (almost) over. There were a lot of great articles published. Some you loved, others you didn’t. But as always, my goal is to provoke thought. And I think I succeeded in that. Here is a look back at the top 5 of 2015!

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Changes Are Coming

Changes are coming to the Little Gay Blog in 2016, dear readers. I’ve been thinking about the blog, what it means to me, and what value I hope it gives you. I don’t have all the ideas fully formulated just yet, but I do have some changes in mind that I’d like to share with you (and hear your thoughts on too!)

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Social Media & Getting Older


I remember a time when even having your mobile phone on the table was considered inappropriate. I remember a time when watching TV was enough to keep you entertained. And I remember a time when waking up didn’t involve groggily grabbing for the nearest device in order to see what I’ve missed during the night.

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Is Social Media Making Us Un-Sociable?

Social media’s goals are lofty. It’s designed to bring us together. To connect people all over the world. To bridge divides and form communities. But does it actually do any of that? In the almost decade since it’s invaded, and now pervaded our lives, has social media actually made us less sociable?

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My Love/Hate Relationship With Gay Travel

gay-travel-headerI genuinely want to get behind the whole idea of gay travel. I love the idea of having spaces and places where gay people can feel relaxed and open on their holidays. A place where people can be who they are, and express themselves, free from fear, judgment  or discrimination. As much as I’ve been trying to get behind the gay travel scene for over a year now, ultimately I end up disappointed.

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Bearded Homos Australia on Instagram

I didn’t get laid for most of my 20s. I attribute this rather sad fact in large part due to having a beard. Back in the early to mid naughties, the metrosexual look was all the rage. (I still haven’t forgiven you David Beckham!) Clean cut and clean shaven was in. Beards were out. Way out. But my how times have changed!

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