Loving Your Body

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For the first time in my life, I actually feel good about the way I look. And guess what? I don’t have washboard abs. My biceps aren’t bulging to escape from my shirt sleeves. And I’ll probably never be a gay magazine cover model.

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Taking A Gaycation

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The plans have been made. Plane tickets are booked. So is the hotel. The friends are rearing to go. So now the countdown to my very first gaycation begins!

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HIV & Life Insurance

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Trying to get life insurance after being diagnosed with HIV or diabetes has up until now, been extremely difficult, if not impossible to do. Thankfully, a new Australian service has recently been launched that readily provides life insurance to people living with well managed HIV and diabetes.

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Some Thoughts On Gay Labels

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Humans create labels to understand things. One label can lead to another. In this way, you can go from human to male to gay. But gay isn’t always the end of the label line. The labels can continue. We’ve created labels such as butch, fem, bear and twink, top and bottom. But where do you fit in if none of the labels apply to you?

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Embrace Your Thirties!

Embrace Your Thirties
Screw the youth obsessed culture we live in. Even if I could, I wouldn’t want to go back in time and and re-live my 20s all over again. The 30s are where it’s at, baby!

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Working Out For Life

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Are you a yo-yo gym rat? You go hard for short periods of time, but then find a mountain of excuses (work, social life, new partner) to allow months to elapse between gym visits? I was just the same – until I made a few changes!

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Are You Approachable?

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It’s oh so easy to lament the decline of the gay scene in recent years. But regardless of whether the scene is in decline or not, my question to you is – when you do venture out and about, are you approachable?

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Australia Needs A Dan Savage

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America’s most well known gay activist and advice columnist, Dan Savage recently visited Australia. He undoubtedly blew a few minds (mine included!) with a compelling communication style and razor sharp intellect. When he spoke, he was heard. And that is precisely why Australia needs a Dan Savage.

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